When i post, it's nothing good... trust me...

Few things i wish to say... abt what i've seen today... well maybe right maybe wrong...

1. why is a bash, which is just supposed to be a normal event being publicised as a valentine's day bash??? no 1 the name... no 2 the giving of flowers today... the other publicity stunts before this was ok, robbery, wood running, loud hailing, giving out namecards/flyers... but flowers??? i mean when i ask ppl outside NUS "pls come for *bash" i get the response "why u guys hold a v day bash so early"... tat's e impression ppl are getting? mkting strategy? riding on another's good will in this case a special occasion's good will? well i can't say its ineffective... i'm just saying is it right?... economically yes... others? not to forget the skeptical faces and straight no thanx faces given by several unsporting public today... it's awkward to say the least... and not exactly all flowers were taken home for the record... so does it become a turn on (in terms of publicity) or a turn off? i leave tat to the staticians during the main event on saturday for that answer... after all the normal singaporean thinking wld be why shld u care... ur nt the publicity head, ur nt the org head... if they think it's ok, just do as you're told, do what they want... but sorrie i'm just nt the kind of person u can hoo haa arnd... if i see reason, i will help out... well the onli reason i see is becuz it raises awareness, but my full approval? nah... juz feels like some ji ko peh/despos giving out v day flowers to girls asking them to come on a mass date... ya tat's wad it looks like to those ppl who gave the weird looks...

2. someone said today that girls look for 安全感. and in some ways it can be seen when u reject e person and he kept on liking u for maybe a year? tat means he's sincerely in love wif u and u get 安全感... but hey come on someone else liked a girl for 5 years... on and off kinda stuff coz e girl juz doesn't reciprocate sometimes... so this theory fails in this aspect doesn't it... i dun know... i'm not like the love expert kinda stuff, i just listen to ppl's opinions and try to compile them... i mean true to certain extent that some girls dun fall for guys easily and they take some time to like someone... so confessing to them too early wld probably result in them shutting u out so that they dun lead u on... and by perservering sometimes it just results in more shutting out and relates to dislike... while others fall for guys easily and wow within a month of knowing each other they got attached... so what's the guideline? i guess it's knowing the other person well... but how well do u need to know the person to know when is the right timing? becuz before the timing no good, after the timing also no good... drag too long and ur thrown into the good friends onli bin or the irky stalker bin (like a particular someone who failed to confess when given the chance recently)... wow sounds very 烦 rite? little wonder singapore's birth rate is so low... after getting attached still have to think when's the right time to pop the important question and where... then still got when to have kids and stuff... i leave tat for later, i haven finish step 1 yet...

end of the day, i'm 烦ing somethings that doesn't reallie concern me... but tat's me i think too much... maybe... actually i think somethings that happened today helps me understand certain ppl better... i dun know... actually if u ask me now.. i still can't figure out what's the right time... or how long it wld take to fall for a person... which kinda complicates matters... well that's the hard part i guess... finding out whether the other person has fallen for u... argh!!!!!!!!!!!!